It’s ok to ask *relationshipy questions after 6 months going on a strong, intense relationship… but not before that, and especially, not before the guy asked you first…
1. Where is this relationship going? (and other *insecure relationshipy question e.g. ‘are we a couple?’, ‘are we exclusive?’ ‘we’re not seeing other people, are we?’)
2. Do you love me? (and other *insecure questions about his feelings to you, e.g. ‘How do you feel about me?’, ‘I have a strong connection with you, don’t you have it too?’)
3. Let’s go for a vacation together (and other you-think-it’s-subtle *let’s commit suggestions e.g. ‘leaving your toothbrush and shampoo in his bathroom’, ‘replacing his worn out handtowel’, ‘why don’t you move in with me?’)
It is OK, however, to put a mental check on the guy’s attitude towards you and the relationship within that 6 months. If he hasn’t shown you that he wants to be rather serious with you, or if he looks like he only wants to have fun… it’s your decision to stay or go.
But never force someone to be serious with you (by doing the above three things), unless he said it first. Trust me. It’s much much harder when you experience it yourself.